One of the keys to transformation is to honor our commitment to transforming our life. Once we create the intention to transform we set into motion the particulars and specifics of what it will take for us to create the life that we say we want. Such a process will involve having integrity, staying to that which we say we will do, completing it the way it was supposed to happen and doing that which we need to do to its completion.
Once we set this process into motion things may start to happen. No, they will happen, roadblocks will appears where before there were none. Things will happen in life, things will appear as though they are blocking our transformation. Our work is to move through them, to accept things as they are, to give up our resistance to how things are, to surrender, and to push on anyway.
One of the barriers or constraints that we will be confronted with will not be about other people, places and things. Rather, the roadblock will be something we generate. It will be our very thoughts and beliefs, thoughts and beliefs that we have about ourselves. We will create the limits to that which we live our life, and we will do so with respect to and in conflict with our intention to transform our life. What it will take is for us to stay present to our commitment and even in the face of our self limiting belief, transform who we think we are, who we are to ourselves and the world. We simply have to do the work.