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Staying with your Commitment to Transform your Life.

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When we take on something new, something that we want to create for ourselves and our life, something will always happen that will appear as if it is there to stop us, so we think.  While we could create a story that either people, places or things are conspiring against, holding us back in some way from our succeeding, trying to control us even, we need to assume total responsibility for what we are experiencing as opposed to blaming.  To blame or to put ourselves down for what we perceive of as a failure at worst or as little success at best, only serves to keep us in that space.  In essence we stay stuck in self blame or pity, generating more of what we really do not want to be happening.

What I must do is stay committed to my project even in the face of no or little reward or pay off.  Staying focused on the creation itself will serve me to stay in the game of creating what I want.  When things show up that I do not want to have happening or happen not at the pace that I would prefer, I must stay open to learning why it is showing up that way.  There is always something to learn in these types of experience.  When things happen that are not in alignment with my created expectations, I have to stay committed to the work, not the outcome.  Being grateful for all that shows up is more powerful for me as opposed to blaming or complaining.  Staying grateful for the small steps allows me to continue to generate more of what I want, more of what the small steps truly represent.

Whatever I focus on will continue to happen.  If I focus primary on the negative, then the negative will continue to show up in my life.  If I stay focused on what is not happening then only the not happening will continue to be created.  I have to stay in my commitment to my creation, that which I am striving for in life.  Staying hungry for my new vocation only serves to continue to generate the outcome that I truly say I want, even if it is only happening in small steps.  The small steps add up to real breakthroughs in our life, to a true transformation in our attempts to bring into existence the mission of our creation.

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True Commitment will show up when you throw your Hat over the Fence

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Sometimes we say we really want something in life.  Sometimes we say we want to create something different for ourselves and our life.  Sometimes we say we want our lives to be different but our actions do not conform or match up with what we say we want.  Sometimes our behavior is not in alignment with what we say we want. Sometimes we do or do not do something that will let us get what we want from life even though we have said that we want it.  Sometimes we hold back in one way or another thereby not allowing us to move forward and truly get what we say we want.

This has happened to me, even now, today.  I say that I want to transform my life by transforming Enhanced Healing.  I say this and have all of the best intentions to do it. However, I do not do what is necessary for my creation to actually happen.  This is the case for me and I have been doing it specificly in the context with my conversations about money.  I make out to be about other people, that they are not doing what they need to do to transform my life.  With this type of conversation I am throwing my responsibility for my creation out the window, blaming and thereby staying stuck.

What I have gotten most recently, a breakthrough for sure, is that I need to throw my hat over the fence and just take action in this particular area of my life that needs it the most.  I have to stop using the reason that something does not happen or someone does not do something as excuses for me staying stuck.  I have to give up my reasons for escaping responsibility, for me not creating my dream.  I have to just do it, through my hat over the fence, and dive into my commitment to create my dream and move pass the limiting conversation about money.

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Being the Possibility of the Principles in Life

Posted on by Dr Harry Henshaw

In recovery one is made aware of the 12 Spiritual Principles.  The Principles are to be lived in all of our daily affairs.  I recently ask a few people to think about the idea that if they were to practice or be the 12 Spiritual Principles how would their life be.  The question for you is the same, if you were to practice and be the Principles how would your life be different than it is now.

If a person were to do this, to practice and be the Principles, the possibility exists that their life would be truly extraordinary.  While the concept of the Principles comes from the world of recovery, their application for transformation of life applies to everyone.

1.  Honesty, overcoming or giving up denial, resulting in surrender.

2.  Hope, overcoming or giving up despair, resulting in open-mindedness.

3.  Faith, overcoming or giving up fear, resulting in serenity.

4.  Courage, overcoming or giving up cowardice, resulting in strength.

5.  Integrity, overcoming or giving up self-deception, resulting in self-awareness.

6.  Willingness, overcoming or giving up self-seeking, resulting in God-reliance.

7.  Humility, overcoming or giving up pride, resulting in self=acceptance.

8.  Self-discipline, overcoming or giving up self-indulgence, resulting in responsibility.

9.  Love, overcoming or giving up indifference, resulting in tolerance.

10.  Perseverance, overcoming or giving up perfectionism, resulting in vigilance.

11.  Spiritual Awareness, overcoming or giving up impatience, resulting in wisdom.

12.  Service, overcoming or giving up self-centeredness, resulting in fellowship.

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Principles of the Daily Homework for Transformation

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PRINCIPLES Pof the DAILY HOMEWORK for TRANSFORMATION

1. To take complete ownership and responsibility for your life.  Understand that you have created and chosen your life the way it is occurring.  You are the cause of what you experience and your life.

2. Watch your word! Stay present to what you think and say. Choose to say positive things about yourself and others. What you think and say creates your experiences of how life will occur and be for you.

3. Practice your Self Affirmations and Possibilities everyday. Say your Self Affirmations Possibilities in the morning, throughout the day and before bedtime.

4. What is your Intention? Plan your Intention each morning upon awakening and stay present to it throughout the day. What are you committed to today? What are you committed to now? What is it that you want to create in your life? What is it that you want to create now?

5. Develop your PLAN.  Plan your work.  Your PLAN is about your life. Your PLAN is about your Integrity.  Integrity is the bottom line.  Are you in integrity with your.  Are you in Integrity with your life?

6. Develop your DAILY ACTION PLAN. Work your plan. Do it everyday! Your DAILY ACTION PLAN is about your commitment and integrity with respect to your PLAN. Your DAILY ACTION PLAN is about fulfilling on your intention and commitments. Your DAILY ACTION PLAN is about keeping your PLAN in existence!

7. Acknowledge yourself and others daily. Acknowledge the miracles in your life. Practice affirming that every moment of your life is a miracle.

8. Practice patience! Remember that you are doing the best you can. At the moment that we do we do the best we can. When you know more, you will do things differently. Do this in regards to others too.

9. Share with others what you are getting out of your work of Transformation.

10. STAY HUNGRY FOR YOUR TRANSFORMATION!

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Final Four Principles of the Daily Homework for Recovery.

Posted on by Dr Harry Henshaw

Below are the final four principles of the Daily Homework for Recovery. Utilizing them in your life will assist you in transforming you and your life.

7. Acknowledge yourself and others daily. Acknowledge the miracles in your life. Practice affirming that every moment of your life is a miracle.

8. Practice patience! Remember that you are doing the best you can. At the moment that we do we do the best we can. When you know more, you will do things differently. Do this in regards to others too.

9. Share with others what you are getting out of your recovery.

10. STAY HUNGRY FOR YOUR RECOVERY!

For transformation and recovery to take place, it is important for us to get it that we are responsible for our life, that such responsibility is generated from our thoughts and word, that life can be transformed through the creation of possibilities, that it is important for us to become intentional about our creating, that we can support such a creative action through structure and repetition, that it is important to acknowledge ourselves through the process while being patient with the journey, that it is vital to the very nature of our transformation for us to share our possibilities with others through enrollment and for us to remain hungry for transformation.

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Three Principles of the Daily Homework.

Posted on by Dr Harry Henshaw
What follows are the first three principles of the Daily Homework.  Bringing them into your life will help to transform you, to transform your life and way of being.
1. To take complete ownership and responsibility for your life. Understand that you have created and chosen your life the way it is occurring. You are the cause of what you experience and your life.
2. Watch your word! Stay present to what you think and say. Choose to say positive things about yourself and others. What you think and say creates your experiences of how life will occur and be for you.
3. Practice your Self Affirmations and Possibilities everyday. Say your Self Affirmations and Possibilities in the morning, throughout the day and before bedtime.

What are you committed to in life, structure or chaos?

Posted on by Dr Harry Henshaw

This is a simple question to asks anyone whether they are in recovery or practicing transformation.  What are you committed to in life?  Are you committed to structure or are you committed to chaos?  Your answer to this question is important.  Regardless of what you say, the truth of your commitment will show up in your behavior.

If you are committed to chaos you will find life very difficult.  You will also find doing recovery difficult, if not impossible.  To be committed to chaos means that you will not do what you say you would do, you will be late for appointments, if you show up at all, will not complete on much of the work that you need to do to change or transform your life.  Living life from the perspective of chaos will also allow you to take no absolutely no responsibility for your life, giving you the ability to blame others.

To be structured is to put order into your life.  To be structured means that I will set up goals and take on accomplishing them through doing what I need to do.  I will show up for my appointments and do what I say I will do.  I will create a plan for my week, for my month, and then will go about making what I want happen. Structure lets me predict what will happen to me, as I am the one actively creating life, not being the effect of life.  Creating the habit of structure will allow you to transform your life.

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Ten Principles for Transformation in Recovery.

Posted on by Dr Harry Henshaw
The ten principles listed below can be of assistance to a person who is in recovery.  While they are not to be confused as the actual work in recovery they will provide a frame or structure from which to do recovery.
1. To take complete ownership and responsibility for your life. Understand that you have created and chosen your life the way it is occurring. You are the cause of what you experience and your life.
2. Watch your word! Stay present to what you think and say. Choose to say positive things about yourself and others. What you think and say creates your experiences of how life will occur and be for you.
3. Practice your Self Affirmations and Possibilities everyday. Say your Self Affirmations and Possibilities in the morning, throughout the day and before bedtime.
4. What is your Intention? Plan your Intention each morning upon awakening and stay present to it throughout the day. What are you committed to today? What are you committed to now? What is it that you want to create in your life? What is it that you want to create now?
5. Develop your RECOVERY PLAN. Plan your work. Your RECOVERY PLAN is about your life. Your RECOVERY PLAN is about your Integrity. Integrity is the bottom line. Are you in integrity with your RECOVERY PLAN. Are you in Integrity with your life?
6. Develop your DAILY ACTION PLAN. Work your plan. Do it everyday! Your DAILY ACTION PLAN is about your commitment and integrity with respect to your RECOVERY PLAN. Your DAILY ACTION PLAN is about fulfilling on your intention and commitments. Your DAILY ACTION PLAN is about keeping your RECOVERY PLAN in existence!
7. Acknowledge yourself and others daily. Acknowledge the miracles in your life. Practice affirming that every moment of your life is a miracle.
8. Practice patience! Remember that you are doing the best you can. At the moment that we do we do the best we can. When you know more, you will do things differently. Do this in regards to others too.
9. Share with others what you are getting out of your recovery.
10. STAY HUNGRY FOR YOUR RECOVERY!

Daily Homework – Four Principles to Transform your life.

Posted on by Dr Harry Henshaw

There are ten principles to the Daily Homework.  Presented here are the first four:

1.  To take complete ownership and responsibility for your life.  Understand that you have created and chosen your life the way it is occuring.  You are the cause of what you experience and your life.

2.  Watch your word.  Stay presen to what you think and say.  Choose to say positive things about yourself and others.  What you think and say creates your experiences of how life will occur and be for you.

3.  Practice your Self Affirmations and Possibilities everyday.  Say your Self Affirmations and Possibilities in the morning, through out the day and before bedtime.

4.  What is your intention?  Plan your intention each morning upon awakening stay present to it throughout the day.  What are you committed to today?  What are you committed to now?  What is it that you want to create in your life?  What is it that you want to create now?

Read each principle slowly and contemplate them daily, throughout the day!

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It is in our word and action that our responsibility is expressed.

Posted on by Dr Harry Henshaw

We are responsible for our life.  It is in our word and action that our responsibility is expressed.  What we say, our word, is important, it has an impact.  But unless our behavior or action matches up with our word, there is no being authentic or integrity in our life.  Being responsible is carrying out our word, doing what we say we would do.  We have to be very present to what we say we will do or promise, present that when we say something that we will do for someone that we will actually do it, not just say so and not fulfill on our promise.  How we show up in life to others will be determined by how responsible we appear to them, how much we honor our word.  We are our word, and actions, to others in life.

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